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Introduction

According to PsychologyToday.com the following shocking statistics are now happening to people who are estranged.

  • 27% of Americans are actively estranged from at least one family member
  • 1 in 2 adults is estrange from a close relative, with 1 in 5 citing political differences as the reason.
  • 6% of respondents reported an estrangement from their mother, while 26% reported and estrangement from their father.
  • 25 million people are estranged from a parent or child
  • 27% of Americans reported being estranged from a family member, extrapolating to 67 million people

These statistics highlight the prevalence of estrangement in American society, particularly in the context of political and generational dynamics. The tope is becoming more talked about, and awareness of estrangement is growing, although the narrative around a rise in estrangement is often misperceived.”

This web site and my book “Ampa” are dedicated to helping you in any way I can. Here you can speak freely, knowing that this site is completely secure and that no one who isn’t a member can see anything you want to share. You can also contact me directly. I’d love to hear your story and hopefully try to help direct you in any way I can. Make no mistake. I’m not a therapist or counsellor but I sure know your pain and I promise you, I’ll seek a way for you to find the peace that I now know.

Introduction


As grandparents we have experienced the joy of raising our own children and then seeing them bring their own children into the world. There is nothing that compares to the love we have for our grandchildren. But our adult children can and do make our lives a living hell when they betray or estrange us. It doesn’t matter what the reason is. My wife and I have been through the extreme trauma of betrayal as our twin granddaughters, who we helped raise were ripped from our lives. For years we languished in pain and anguish until finally I came to the conclusion, with the help of therapy, the best way for me to heal was to help others.

About Us

BetrayedGrandparents.com is a place for alienated, estranged or betrayed grandparents to express their views and receive other insights from other estranged grandparents or contributors, including the author of the book “Ampa” in a safe, controlled setting. Being a betrayed and estranged grandparent myself I, and my contributors, have unique points of view that we use to help others.

Resources

The resource page has several links to other experts in the field of estrangement who are recognized for their work. In the future, it will also include additional new books or other sites that can help estranged grandparents.

Community Forum

A safe and supportive space where estranged grandparents can share their stories, connect with others, and speak from the heart.

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